What you allow is what will continue

Change your thought processes, change your life. Visualize it, then materialize it. Even when it breaks your heart, you have to put your foot down, walk away and demand some respect and if they did love you they would be willing to work it out and make that change if they really love you enough. ~  …

Explain your anger, don’t Express it

Don’t explain to people, they only hear what they want to hear. ~ Paulo coelho Shut up when you are angry is the best way. Go to sleep and cool it off. When you wake up you will find that it was nothing much to be angry about. ~ Kpo Junnie  When you make an effort to …

No matter what people think of you

Silence & smile are two powerful tools. Smile is the way to solve many problems & silence is the way to avoid many problems. When you’re facing a terrible keep the most beautiful smile and then everything will pass.  No matter what we do, we can never satisfy everyone’s expectation. If you spent your life concentrating …

You can’t change how people treat you

Don’t react just smile & keep quiet. They don’t know what’s on your mind. Get over it and go on. Really helps to have folks that remind us we do not have to change to make someone else happy. ~ Linda Nelson Sometimes if you can’t change the situation, change your attitude towards the situation. It’s a …

A clear rejection is always better

It hurts for a shorter time than being lied to and eventually finding out. ~ Paula Lundquist Don’t say promises that you cant keep and do. Just letting the other person hold on something that can’t be done and that’s totally unfair. Being true even if it will hurt the one you love is more acceptable, being …