Tag: choice

The one thing people can’t take away from you

When I have acted disrespectfully, I was not aware of it, only that I was responding to fears which may or may not have had anything to do with the person I treated disrespectfully, so unaware. I may have apologized, but no one heard me. Now when others treat me without respect I might ask, “What …

When it comes to choosing friends

Friends come & go for a time or season. Those who show up in life have something to teach us whether they give or take from you. Loyalty is really at it’s core. You get what you mirror which for most is a hard thing to grasp. Nevertheless the more honest you are with yourself the …

Those people that are not adding to your growth

At some point if you are hurting and the person is not receptive but only increasingly more bad for your life then it is time to walk away and devote your time to those who either contribute to your life positively or accept your positive contributions into their life. It takes wisdom to decide when to …

If people treated you like an option

Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride it’s self-respect. Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people. Don’t give part- time people a …

You may not be someone’s first choice

If you can’t love yourself, eventually no one else will. Why try to be someone you are not. People see the real you eventually. The saddest feeling is when someone you know suddenly ignores you without any reason.  Take it or leave it. I am what I am. No reason to stay with someone that doesn’t …