A strong woman stands up for herself. A stronger woman stands up for everyone else. ~ Unknown
You can’t be good company for someone else, if you’re not happy with your own company.
We all should be able to be independent so we never have to depend on someone to take care of us completely, not a good thing at all, we tell our sons & daughters to always be strong alone and you will find a strong partner in your life as well strong alone and even stronger together.
Too many women want a man to pay for their jewellery, clothes, shoes and cosmetics. Some women feel like they need a man in their lives in order to feel happy. But a truly mature woman will be happy with who she is and as she is and she will invite a man to join her on her quest to live life with her instead of begging a man to be with her. If a woman wants a guy to make all the decisions, then feel like she is being “controlled”, that screams out immaturity to me. A real woman does not “need” a man but welcomes one once she is “ready” to be loved by one. But she needs to learn how to love herself first. Everything I said is true for men too. I used to want a woman in my life so bad thinking I would be happy once I had one. I needed to find my own happiness and love myself before I was mature enough to love another person. I have now found the love of my life. I would not have been ready to recieve her love if I met her before I was ready. I love you Sabrina. ~ Jonathan Wilberger
Gone are the days when womenfolk look to their menfolk for total support, financially or otherwise. A woman’s place then was in the home, a man’s the workplace. Nowadays, the increasing current trend proves women are equally secure in their own independence and earning capabilities as opposed to their male counterpart. This role reversal is widespread as more and more women are slowly coming into their own and being recognized as being as good as, if not better than their male equivalent as earners in their own right. Male dependency is removed allowing the woman better control of her own life than ever before, happier in her own sense of accomplishment and self fulfilment. The modern woman is a multi-tasker, bringing up a family in addition to bringing home the bacon. Speaking from experience, it was initially hard juggling the two but with a lot of adjusting and prioritising, it worked like clockwork and my children are living proof and perfect examples that a woman’s place can be anywhere she wants it to be, at home, work, or even both, as a working, earning mother. ~ Margaret Young
The synergy of a man and a woman on the same mission together is both beautiful and powerful. A truly secure woman has no need to prove herself. She can be equally at ease to take on a supportive and nurturing role , practising interdependence with a worthy man. Or she can be fulfilling her life mission as a single individual. This is not about finance. This is about exercising one’s core values. ~ Mary Esther
Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting , arguments became phone calls , feelings became subliminal messages online. Sex became easy , the word “love” gets used out of context , insecurities have become your way of thinking. Getting jealous became a habit , trust has been lost , cheating became an accident, leaving became the only option & being hurt became natural.