It’s just like you play guitar when the strings are tight or loose, but when right adjusted, sounds pretty well.
If you love something, turn it loose. If it comes back it is yours but if it doesn’t come back it never was yours.
Hold with care build a nest and stay happy together.
You should never hold it tight, because there would be no freedom if you do. Relationships should always be held gently and carefully, so they can fly or remain with you. There should be freedom to do either depending on the people. ~ Speedy Ladan
Trust! Understanding that persons feelings, allowing each other time to grow and inspire. Respect that person individuality, which in time will allow your relationship to blossom. ~ Janet Robinson
If you hold them just right, they’ll stay with you for life.