People change for two reasons

Being Hurt will bring one to learn much. When you are hurt to the extreme you learn more and become stronger. Pain is the catalyst of change and growth. Anger appropriately applied is also a factor. How we deal determines our healing. It is not negative to be angry. It’s negative to deny it out of …

Telling the truth & making someone cry is better

There’s a big difference in telling the truth and being a smart ass. Most people who make you cry only pretend to be honest. They are actually just being rude mean and nasty. ~ Jeffry Brown  If someone telling you the truth is being considered “rude, mean and nasty” it is not their fault. There is only …

Strangers can become best friends

To me a true friend would realize a mutual respect beyond any word or event. A true friend works hard along side you as a bond without judgement of righteousness. To bring others up or down beside themselves together for a mutual well being so you wouldn’t have to endure anything alone. ~ George Valdez  Sometimes best …

It’s not about people who act true to your face

Every smiling face is not your friend. Just be happy with what you do and have the confidence to stay true to yourself. Screw the others. They don’t matter. When you see those “friends” talking about other friends behind their backs, know they’re talking about you behind yours. ~ Denise Miller  Interesting how people will say one …

Maybe not today, or tomorrow, or even in a year

YEP…. Made it 2 yr this week— CANCER-FREE !!!!!!!! ~ Patty Williams  Life is not easy, it’s empty but we should face the reality that despite the hardship & challenges in life, at the end of the road, the one who can help you is yourself and God. Don’t rely your strength to others, do it for …

The Best Form of Love

Forgiveness does not have to mean “forget”, it simply means ‘accept’ (the act or situation) to be able to move forward. ~ Danielle Villalobos  Just say the words; ‘I forgive myself’. The hard part is figuring out what piece of whatever it is, you own. You must forgive yourself before others, even if your the innocent. Sometime …