Alone is better you have more options and freedom.
If you want to stop the pain then remove whatever may have caused it.
Remove yourself as fast as you can and do your best to live your life to the fullest.
A way to do this is to simply pick up something new. Maybe you want to lose weight, then join a gym. Or join a club of some sort, you’ll be around a different spectrum of people and eventually those around you who treat you like an option will be come obsolete.
Knowing that you’re God’s first pick. Alone allowing self respect to be your constant companion. But, I understand, you have to push through the pain of rejection until you reach peace. ~ Nikki Zimmerman